Here are some thoughts/feelings I’ve had about driving since my arrival, nearly 6 weeks ago (I can’t believe I’ve been here so long). I’ve put off writing about this, but it can’t be pushed back anymore. I hate driving in Thailand. It is absolutely insane! First of all, I still am not used to driving on the other side of the road. I’ve nearly been hit by a car several times because I look the other way ( I know, look both ways, but come on, do you?). I remember my first day here I was with an AIESEC girl who told me to quick cross the road, only to yell “STOP!” in the middle of the road. I then froze in the middle of traffic as cars whizzed by me on both sides. I have learned to be uber aggressive when crossing the road, otherwise you will be stuck for ages. Drivers could also be classified as uber aggressive. I lived in Chicago where drivers are reckless, but I have never been so scared of other motorists than I have in Thailand. The shoulder of the road is fair game, almost considered another lane altogether. Motorbikes are constantly weaving in and out of traffic. Motorbikes are like taxis here, pay 15 baht, hop on the back and they take you where ever you want. I have been very hesitant to ride one, since I see how they drive, but in the rural areas I feel that it is safe(r). In fact last weekend was my virgin voyage on a motorbike. It was similar to another virgin voyage I’ve had. It was scary, exhilarating, a moment I will never forget, and way too quick. Whoops, sorry Mom. But unlike that time, there were 3 people involved on the motorbike. My first time on a motorbike in Thailand we crammed 3 people on a 125 cc motorbike!!!! I know that’s freaking crazy! I kept yelling “OH MY GOD” on the ride. Visual: Front, a 270 lb Thai driver, me, my british friend, no idea how we fit on that seat. I have never felt so close to 2 other men, I hope that I never have that feeling again.
When I drive to Bangkok or any other place with someone at school, I am absolutely mortified. I like to sit in the front seat because that is the only place you are required to wear a seatbelt. In the back it is uncommon to wear one, and people have commented to me that I don’t need to wear it. I don’t know if it’s rude on my part to tell them I want to wear one because they drive like a freaking 16 year old tripping on acid and speed at the same time! I probably scare the driver more than anything because I do a lot of gasping and clutching of anything I can grab onto in the car. I’ve gotten more used to driving here during my stay. I don’t know if this is a good thing. Am I getting used the driving style of the Thai or has my sensitivity to death by car quelled since I expect to die every car ride? I really hope it is the former.