Close your eyes. Slowly inhale through your nose; slowly exhale through your mouth. Repeat two more times. Go ahead and try it. The blog will wait. Ok ready?
Sometimes you need a reminder to stop, relax, and enjoy. I’m reminding you because I often forget this.
In a previous post, I mentioned some ideas regarding social comparison theory. I think it’s an ugly affliction that touches us all. No matter how hard I try, I can’t escape SCT’s grasp. Perhaps this is a feeling that particularly affects us during our young professional days, but I feel an acute case of social comparison right now. I think (rationalize) that it fuels me, pushing me to be “successful”. In reality, it probably consumes me, in an unhealthy manner. I find myself far too often, looking toward the future, planning. I concentrate on what I haven’t accomplished and not appreciate what I have. My mind is dominated by the fact that I have yet to start a business, build this blog’s reader base (don’t worry, I appreciate my 12 loyal followers, I know who you are), have a meaningful romantic relationship, and be more advanced in my career. I dwell on this day in and day out. It’s because I look at snapshots of my friend’s lives and compare myself to their greatest attributes to my body of work as a whole. It’s never a confidence booster. I need to sit back and just soak in all my eclectic experiences, appreciate what I have accomplished, be thankful for what I have, and enjoy my life.
My short-term goal is not to focus on what I don’t have and rather what I do have. Sure, I’ll still take steps to bring future goals to fruition, but I am going to enjoy 2009. I am young. I live by the beach. I have a great job and great friends. I have no long-term financial obligations. I have mobility, freedom, and choice. This is going to be a year that I will always think fondly and be able to tell my children (when they’re older) about this year in my life that I lived life without worries and just lived life the way it should be lived…to it’s fullest.




s to sparkling water, plastic for normal sparkling water, glass for the special stuff.